I've always admired the idea of finding the extraordinary in the ordinary. maybe the finding isn't the word, but coming across. Like how things are found, it's not screaming for attention, it's just there and you noticed it. Putting it in the context of human beings, I've always liked coming across qualities that I admire to those whom I do not expect they actually are. Qualities of a person are what interest me the most, besides how the person thinks about something, anything, how a person feels, it doesn't have to be good all the time. It can be bad all the time, I think it's just human.

the qualities of a person, cannot be figured out or guessed upon the first time you meet them in person. I figured I should try exploring in within someone, just for the hell of it. I also thought what I will find, will be interesting. And it was. I've had bad experiences, good ones too. If you let them in, they'll let you in too. And then magic happens, we click. It's never easy to just let someone in, I can put a bet on that, but most of the time it works, because we're all the same on the inside. Just wanting to let go, at some point of time. It's amazing when things work the other way around, maybe because we're always in love with our ideas that we're too blind to see what we're given or presented with.

The idea of having this pretty friend with long hair, or someone with nice teeth or a nice nose, or someone who has a pretty face, admirable, and the list goes on, i think is what is actually stopping us from what we're searching for. We always don't know what we need until we realise it's right there, infront of us.

Isn't it sad? We are always expecting, and when expectation doesn't come by what we require we get disappointed and feel lousy.

Our ideas of having someone to be well dressed, or always looking fit, or always permanently good looking, our ideas of having someone to always have nice flowy hair, or nice short hair cut, or cleanly shaved chins and moustaches.

Getting to know someone is a magical experience, and it should not be based whether you've met them for a first or a second time. There's a whole world for you to discover in someone, now isn't that interesting to think about? It shouldn't be based on whether they're old or not (if they're creepy then that's an exception), how unshaved his chin or moustache is, or how tidy his hair was that day.

Truth is, we're all human beings. What is lacking the most in what I usually see is substance. Substance in a person worth exploring, worth admiring, worth talking about. Thinking, and time is abused. Time is beautiful, but we abuse it. Over and over and over again.

We fall in love with our ideas and expect from them,
isn't it sad?

Sunday, October 13, 2013 @ 5:04 AM / 0 daisies


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